Are You Touch Starved in Your Gay Relationship?

April 25, 2010

Some new research reported in the New York Times suggests that couples that engage in more touch report higher levels of relationship satisfaction. This might sound like common sense, but it is also a good reminder of what helps sustain successful relationships. Although it is hard to know what came first for these couples, the relationship satisfaction [...]

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6 Tips to Avoid Gay Relationship Breakdown in the World of Web 2.0

February 23, 2010

Time and time again in my clinical practice, I am coming across clients who report gay relationship breakdown because of problems in communication related to social media and the web 2.0. Web 2.0 refers to the new era of the internet where we have moved from static websites that people visit to an interactive social [...]

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The Top Ten Gay Relationship Myths (Part 2)

December 21, 2009

MYTH # 6: MY CHILDHOOD WON’T AFFECT MY RELATIONSHIP Some people believe that whatever kind of childhood they had, it has no bearing on the relationships they form in adulthood. Nothing could be further from the truth. It is impossible to not bring the influences of your childhood into your relationship. It is in childhood [...]

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The Top 10 Gay Relationship Myths

December 5, 2009

MYTH # 1: GAY RELATIONSHIPS ARE EASY No relationships are easy, gay or straight! I am always amazed how people spend so much time, money and energy studying, training and applying themselves in their professions to become the best they can be. Yet, when it come to relationships, many people think they will just happen [...]

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Aligning Your Needs with Your Gay Relationship Vision

October 25, 2009

In my last post I wrote about developing a relationship vision, either with your partner, or if you are single, developing a vision of the type of relationship you would like to create in the future. The benefits of this are that you can become clearer about what your personal goals are, and together you [...]

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Do You Have a Vision For Your Gay Relationship?

September 29, 2009

After a week of incredible dust storms in Sydney and the problems we all had with our vision (and breathing!), it got me thinking about the difficulties we sometimes have with our vision in gay relationships. In my gay relationship counselling work with singles and couples, I often hear statements such as, “I just fell [...]

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4 Steps to a Great Gay Relationship

September 3, 2009

I have been reflecting on my counselling work of the last week, when I worked with a number of couples that were in enormous emotional pain. It had me asking myself the question, what is it that happens in gay relationships that causes pain? One answer I come back to again and again is related [...]

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The Secret to Knowing If Your Gay Relationship Will Last

July 25, 2009

Have you thought much about what makes some gay relationships work and others fail? I have been interested in this question, through working with gay individuals and same-sex couples with relationship issues over many years. I am always interested in what helps some couples have loving, respectful and successful relationships and others experience constant pain [...]

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Clinton Power is a counsellor and psychotherapist who offers individual and relationship counselling for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender individuals and same-sex couples at 147 King Street Sydney and Wells St Newtown, serving the Sydney CBD, Newtown, the Eastern Suburbs, the Western Suburbs and North Sydney — including Surry Hills, Bondi Junction, Bondi, Darling Point, Woollahra, Edgecliff, Kings Cross, Double Bay, Paddington, Bellevue Hill, Potts Point, Darlinghurst, Central, Broadway, Chippendale, Ultimo, Pyrmont, Redfern, North Sydney, Lavender Bay, McMahons Point, St Peters, Marrickville, Stanmore, Enmore, Erskineville and Botany. For more information contact 0412 241 410.